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There\u2019s a pretty famous book by Dr. Gary Chapman that was all the craze where you can learn your love language so you can better communicate with your partner as to how you best give and receive love. When it comes to how you handle your money, there are love languages here too that many people fall into regarding their attitudes about their financial situation, and where you find yourself in these categories can be just as telling as your love language.<\/p>\n

Anxiety<\/h2>\n

For many people, especially those that grow up without money, money and finances trigger anxiety in their lives. Their money language is all centered around anxiety \u2013 what happens when I don\u2019t have enough money? Will it all be taken away at some point? Even if they become quite wealthy and have a good bit of income and assets, they still have feelings of anxiety surrounding money, or spending money, or needing additional money.<\/p>\n

Stress<\/h2>\n

Similarly, to those with anxiety, there\u2019s another category of folks that feel stress around finances -either from having too little or not knowing how to handle what they do have. Money is often one of the top reasons for divorce, and not understanding how each partner spends money can certainly lead to friction.<\/p>\n

Greed<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s no surprise that greed is often associated with money, as we often find there are many people who just continue to want more and more of it, to the point of starting wars over money and power. While it\u2019s ok to want more money, it can be destructive when it gets in the way of your morals and ethics, or when it becomes an all-encompassing feeling. Greed is pervasive in society though, and we can likely all think of examples of someone motivated by greed when it comes to money.<\/p>\n

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Pride<\/h2>\n

When you\u2019ve managed to accumulate wealth, pride is a feeling that often comes into play \u2013 particularly if you\u2019ve started with modest means. Of course, there\u2019s a point where pridefulness can turn into showiness, but there\u2019s nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments.<\/p>\n

Happiness<\/h2>\n

There\u2019s a group where regardless of how little or how much money they have, money in general makes them happy \u2013 often because they\u2019re using it to do things that they enjoy in life.<\/p>\n

Envy<\/h2>\n

Money can make many people feel envious, particularly if they feel that others have a better financial situation than they do \u2013 it may be helpful to keep in mind that there is always someone out there with more or less than you, and that money isn\u2019t everything in life.<\/p>\n

Guilt<\/h2>\n

So many people feel guilty over money \u2013 whether it\u2019s due to having accumulated a lot of it and feeling guilty that others haven\u2019t, or feeling like they shouldn\u2019t spend money on themselves, money can carry a lot of guilty emotions for people. For this group, it may help to think of money as a tool to make the world a better place.<\/p>\n

Fear<\/h2>\n

There\u2019s a group of people who are simply afraid of money \u2013 perhaps afraid of how money may impact their lives, or how they behave around their money. They often bury their heads in the sand when it comes to their finances in general. This group may benefit from working with a neutral third party, like a financial advisor, to help them neutralize that fear.<\/p>\n

Love<\/h2>\n

For some, money equals love \u2013 money itself just evokes a feeling of being loved and they want more of it. Loving money a little bit may be motivating, however loving it too much may be an obsession that can cloud your life.<\/p>\n

When it comes to understanding your money language, having an idea of where you fall into one of these categories (or several of them) can help you better relate to your finances \u2013 and if you have a partner, you may be able to understand each other and how you both relate to your finances together, too.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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